When I got Up from the table that evening, I remember hearing my mom apologize to my dad For burning the toast. And I'll never forget what he said: 'Baby, I love burned toast.'
Later that night, I went to kiss Daddy good night and I asked him if He really liked his toast burned. He wrapped me in his arms and said, 'Debbie, your Momma put in a hard day at work today and she's real tired. And besides-a little burnt toast never hurt anyone!' You know, life is full of imperfect things…..and imperfect people. I'm not the best housekeeper or cook.
What I've learned over the years is that learning to accept each other's faults – and choosing to celebrate each other's differences – is the one of the most important keys to creating a healthy, growing, and lasting relationship.
And that's my Duaa for you today. That you will learn to take the good, the bad, and the ugly parts of your life and lay them at the feet of Allah. Because in the end, He's the only One who will be able to give you a relationship where burnt toast isn't a deal-breaker! We could extend this to any relationship in fact – as understanding is the base of any relationship, be it a husband-wife or parent-child or friendship!! "
"Don't put the key to your happiness in someone else's pocket but into your own."
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