(1) A man loves his life, his perfection and his living long.
(2) He loves one who helps him in his livelihood.
(3) He loves one who does good to the people.
(4) He loves one who has external and internal beauty.
(5) He loves one who has a secret connection with him.
If these qualities are found in one person, love for him is increased manifold.
~ GHAZALI ~