As part of Women\u2019s Week on Radio Islam International, on this programme we will be looking at issues that the husband needs to understand in order to treat his wife well. These are issues that are related to the private lives of the couple, issues that are relevant when the couple are involved in a private discussion at home.<\/p>\n
Don\u2019t be ignorant of female biology<\/strong> Nabi S.A.W. did not shy away from these matters, either as a husband or as a Messenger of Allah. 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She replied. \u201cHe used to keep himself busy serving his family and when it was time for the prayer, he would get up for prayer.\u201d (Bukh\u00e2ri)<\/em><\/p>\n \u00c2ishah R.A. reported: I was asked, \u201cWhat did the Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, do in his house?\u201d I said, \u201cThe Prophet was a man among men. He would remove fleas from his clothes, milk his sheep, and serve himself.\u201d (Musnad Ahmad)<\/em><\/p>\n These narrations show us that Nabi S.A.W. did not just fulfil the basic rights, but went a step further in engaging himself in household chores. As a Nabi, it would have been very easy for him to secure the services of the Sahaaba R.A. to do these chores. They eagerly awaited an opportunity to serve him. However, Nabi S.A.W. done all this himself. 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\nLearn about it \u2013 from menstruation to pregnancy and everything else. You need to know this stuff \u2013 it will impact your life significantly, intimately and otherwise. Don\u2019t laugh it off or act as though it\u2019s not worth your time and attention. Women\u2019s health is sorely misunderstood, and having a disinterested (or worse, disgusted) husband can make things even more difficult for women.<\/p>\n
\nNarrated by Umm Salamah R.A.: While I was laying with the Prophet (\ufdfa) under a single woolen sheet, I got the menses. I slipped away and put on the clothes for menses. He said, “Have you got “Nifas” (menses)?” I replied, “Yes.” He then called me and made me lie with him under the same sheet. (Bukhari)<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n
\nBeing \u201ca good Muslim husband\u201d doesn\u2019t just mean fulfilling the basic rights as a husband and leaving it at that. Being a good Muslim husband means that you are on the ball as a responsible adult \u2013 whether it\u2019s paying the bills, taking out the trash, cleaning a mess in the house, or being an engaged father (not \u2018babysitting\u2019). Doing these things is not a \u201ckindness to the wife,\u201d or \u201chelping out at home.\u201d It\u2019s not \u201cextra credit\u201d and deserving of lavish praise. It is part and parcel of being a grown man responsible for his surroundings, his family, and himself.<\/p>\n