{"id":49848,"date":"2021-05-05T09:00:59","date_gmt":"2021-05-05T07:00:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.radioislam.org.za\/a\/?p=49848"},"modified":"2021-05-04T08:43:06","modified_gmt":"2021-05-04T06:43:06","slug":"gratitude-for-your-children-part-18-b","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/radioislam.org.za\/a\/gratitude-for-your-children-part-18-b\/","title":{"rendered":"Gratitude for your children Part 18 B"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>One of Allah`s very great blessings on us is His granting us children.<\/p>\n<p>\u0648\u064e\u0671\u0644\u0644\u0651\u064e\u0647\u064f \u062c\u064e\u0639\u064e\u0644\u064e \u0644\u064e\u0643\u064f\u0645 \u0645\u0651\u0650\u0646\u0652 \u0623\u064e\u0646\u0641\u064f\u0633\u0650\u0643\u064f\u0645\u0652 \u0623\u064e\u0632\u0652\u0648\u064e\u0670\u062c\u064b\u0627 \u0648\u064e\u062c\u064e\u0639\u064e\u0644\u064e \u0644\u064e\u0643\u064f\u0645 \u0645\u0651\u0650\u0646\u0652 \u0623\u064e\u0632\u0652\u0648\u064e\u0670\u062c\u0650\u0643\u064f\u0645 \u0628\u064e\u0646\u0650\u064a\u0646\u064e \u0648\u064e\u062d\u064e\u0641\u064e\u062f\u064e\u0629\u064b \u0648\u064e\u0631\u064e\u0632\u064e\u0642\u064e\u0643\u064f\u0645 \u0645\u0651\u0650\u0646\u064e \u0671\u0644\u0637\u0651\u064e\u064a\u0651\u0650\u0628\u064e\u0640\u0670\u062a\u0650 \u06da \u0623\u064e\u0641\u064e\u0628\u0650\u0671\u0644\u0652\u0628\u064e\u0640\u0670\u0637\u0650\u0644\u0650 \u064a\u064f\u0624\u0652\u0645\u0650\u0646\u064f\u0648\u0646\u064e \u0648\u064e\u0628\u0650\u0646\u0650\u0639\u0652\u0645\u064e\u062a\u0650 \u0671\u0644\u0644\u0651\u064e\u0647\u0650 \u0647\u064f\u0645\u0652 \u064a\u064e\u0643\u0652\u0641\u064f\u0631\u064f\u0648\u0646\u064e<br \/>\nIt is Allah Who has made for you mates from your own species and He is the One Who gives you sons and grandsons through those wives, and provides for you good things to eat: will they then, after knowing all that, believe that falsehood and disbelieve Allah&#8217;s favours?<\/p>\n<p>Holding up your child, playing with them, even allowing yourself to be there boxing bag and your mountain and laughing at all the silly things they do and say brings tremendous joy and lightens up any parents heart.<\/p>\n<p>Nowadays, we see people have become hard-hearted so that their attitude towards children is unpleasant. There are some who show much partiality toward one gender, and there are some who don\u2019t treat others\u2019 children with the same kindness or affection which they show to their own children.<\/p>\n<p>It is common to see even people who claim that they act on the Quran and Sunnah showing less interest in playing with their children or giving them the due attention or expression of love.<\/p>\n<p>The Prophet \ufdfa is the model for the whole of humankind. His attitude towards children was always compassionate and merciful.<\/p>\n<p>Being fond of children, Prophet Muhammad \ufdfa showed great interest in playing with them. His involvement in children\u2019s games shows us the great importance in playing with our children.<\/p>\n<p>He would have fun with the children who had come back from Abyssinia and tried to speak in Abyssinian with them. It was his practice to give lifts on his camel to children when he returned from journeys.<\/p>\n<p>Prophet Muhammad \ufdfa never held back his love for the children and always expressed his fondness to them. In one hadith Abu Hurairah (may Allah be pleased with him) narrated:<br \/>\n\u0639\u064e\u0646\u0652 \u0623\u064e\u0628\u0650\u064a \u0647\u064f\u0631\u064e\u064a\u0652\u0631\u064e\u0629\u064e\u060c \u0642\u064e\u0627\u0644\u064e \u062e\u064e\u0631\u064e\u062c\u0652\u062a\u064f \u0645\u064e\u0639\u064e \u0631\u064e\u0633\u064f\u0648\u0644\u0650 \u0627\u0644\u0644\u0651\u064e\u0647\u0650 \u0635\u0644\u0649 \u0627\u0644\u0644\u0647 \u0639\u0644\u064a\u0647 \u0648\u0633\u0644\u0645 \u0641\u0650\u064a \u0637\u064e\u0627\u0626\u0650\u0641\u064e\u0629\u064d \u0645\u0650\u0646\u064e \u0627\u0644\u0646\u0651\u064e\u0647\u064e\u0627\u0631\u0650 \u0644\u0627\u064e \u064a\u064f\u0643\u064e\u0644\u0651\u0650\u0645\u064f\u0646\u0650\u064a \u0648\u064e\u0644\u0627\u064e \u0623\u064f\u0643\u064e\u0644\u0651\u0650\u0645\u064f\u0647\u064f \u062d\u064e\u062a\u0651\u064e\u0649 \u062c\u064e\u0627\u0621\u064e \u0633\u064f\u0648\u0642\u064e \u0628\u064e\u0646\u0650\u064a \u0642\u064e\u064a\u0652\u0646\u064f\u0642\u064e\u0627\u0639\u064e \u062b\u064f\u0645\u0651\u064e \u0627\u0646\u0652\u0635\u064e\u0631\u064e\u0641\u064e \u062d\u064e\u062a\u0651\u064e\u0649 \u0623\u064e\u062a\u064e\u0649 \u062e\u0650\u0628\u064e\u0627\u0621\u064e \u0641\u064e\u0627\u0637\u0650\u0645\u064e\u0629\u064e \u0641\u064e\u0642\u064e\u0627\u0644\u064e \u200f&#8221;\u200f \u0623\u064e\u062b\u064e\u0645\u0651\u064e \u0644\u064f\u0643\u064e\u0639\u064f \u0623\u064e\u062b\u064e\u0645\u0651\u064e \u0644\u064f\u0643\u064e\u0639\u064f \u200f&#8221;\u200f \u200f.\u200f \u064a\u064e\u0639\u0652\u0646\u0650\u064a \u062d\u064e\u0633\u064e\u0646\u064b\u0627 \u0641\u064e\u0638\u064e\u0646\u064e\u0646\u0651\u064e\u0627 \u0623\u064e\u0646\u0651\u064e\u0647\u064f \u0625\u0650\u0646\u0651\u064e\u0645\u064e\u0627 \u062a\u064e\u062d\u0652\u0628\u0650\u0633\u064f\u0647\u064f \u0623\u064f\u0645\u0651\u064f\u0647\u064f \u0644\u0623\u064e\u0646\u0652 \u062a\u064f\u063a\u064e\u0633\u0651\u0650\u0644\u064e\u0647\u064f \u0648\u064e\u062a\u064f\u0644\u0652\u0628\u0650\u0633\u064e\u0647\u064f \u0633\u0650\u062e\u064e\u0627\u0628\u064b\u0627 \u0641\u064e\u0644\u064e\u0645\u0652 \u064a\u064e\u0644\u0652\u0628\u064e\u062b\u0652 \u0623\u064e\u0646\u0652 \u062c\u064e\u0627\u0621\u064e \u064a\u064e\u0633\u0652\u0639\u064e\u0649 \u062d\u064e\u062a\u0651\u064e\u0649 \u0627\u0639\u0652\u062a\u064e\u0646\u064e\u0642\u064e \u0643\u064f\u0644\u0651\u064f \u0648\u064e\u0627\u062d\u0650\u062f\u064d \u0645\u0650\u0646\u0652\u0647\u064f\u0645\u064e\u0627 \u0635\u064e\u0627\u062d\u0650\u0628\u064e\u0647\u064f \u0641\u064e\u0642\u064e\u0627\u0644\u064e \u0631\u064e\u0633\u064f\u0648\u0644\u064f \u0627\u0644\u0644\u0651\u064e\u0647\u0650 \u0635\u0644\u0649 \u0627\u0644\u0644\u0647 \u0639\u0644\u064a\u0647 \u0648\u0633\u0644\u0645 \u200f&#8221;\u200f \u0627\u0644\u0644\u0651\u064e\u0647\u064f\u0645\u0651\u064e \u0625\u0650\u0646\u0651\u0650\u064a \u0623\u064f\u062d\u0650\u0628\u0651\u064f\u0647\u064f \u0641\u064e\u0623\u064e\u062d\u0650\u0628\u0651\u064e\u0647\u064f \u0648\u064e\u0623\u064e\u062d\u0652\u0628\u0650\u0628\u0652 \u0645\u064e\u0646\u0652 \u064a\u064f\u062d\u0650\u0628\u0651\u064f\u0647\u064f \u200f&#8221;<br \/>\nAbu Huraira reported:<\/p>\n<p>I went along with Allah&#8217;s Messenger (\ufdfa) at a time during the day but he did not talk to me and I did not talk to him until he reached the market of Bani Qainuqa`. He came back to the tent of Fatima and said: Is the little chap (meaning Hasan) there? We were under the impression that his mother had detained him in order to bathe him and dress him and garland him with a sweet garland. Not much time had passed that he (Hasan) came running until both of them embraced each other, thereupon Allah&#8217;s Messenger (\ufdfa) said: O Allah, I love him; love him Thou and love one who loves him (Hasan). (Muslim)<\/p>\n<p>Anas ibn Malik (may Allah be pleased with him), the servant of the Prophet \ufdfa, had another recollection:<br \/>\nI never saw anyone who was more compassionate towards children than Allah\u2019s Messenger (peace and blessings be upon him). His son Ibrahim was in the care of a wet nurse in the hills around Madinah. He would go there, and we would go with him, and he would enter the house, pick up his son and kiss him, then come back. (Muslim)<\/p>\n<p>The Prophet\u2019s love for children was not restricted to his children and grandchildren. The scope of his mercy and affection embraced all children, and he showed the same interest and gentleness to his Companion\u2019s children.<\/p>\n<p>The following hadith narrated by Usamah ibn Zaid (may Allah be pleased with him) shows this humane aspect of the Prophet\u2019s \ufdfa personality:<\/p>\n<p>Allah\u2019s Messenger used to put me on (one of) his thighs and put Al-Hasan ibn `Ali on his other thigh, and then embrace us and say, \u201cO Allah! Please be merciful to them, as I am merciful to them.\u201d (Al-Bukhari)<\/p>\n<p>The Prophet was always patient and considerate with children and took great pain not to hurt their tender feelings.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>One of Allah`s very great blessings on us is His granting us children. \u0648\u064e\u0671\u0644\u0644\u0651\u064e\u0647\u064f \u062c\u064e\u0639\u064e\u0644\u064e \u0644\u064e\u0643\u064f\u0645 \u0645\u0651\u0650\u0646\u0652 \u0623\u064e\u0646\u0641\u064f\u0633\u0650\u0643\u064f\u0645\u0652 \u0623\u064e\u0632\u0652\u0648\u064e\u0670\u062c\u064b\u0627 \u0648\u064e\u062c\u064e\u0639\u064e\u0644\u064e \u0644\u064e\u0643\u064f\u0645 \u0645\u0651\u0650\u0646\u0652 \u0623\u064e\u0632\u0652\u0648\u064e\u0670\u062c\u0650\u0643\u064f\u0645 \u0628\u064e\u0646\u0650\u064a\u0646\u064e \u0648\u064e\u062d\u064e\u0641\u064e\u062f\u064e\u0629\u064b \u0648\u064e\u0631\u064e\u0632\u064e\u0642\u064e\u0643\u064f\u0645 \u0645\u0651\u0650\u0646\u064e \u0671\u0644\u0637\u0651\u064e\u064a\u0651\u0650\u0628\u064e\u0640\u0670\u062a\u0650 \u06da \u0623\u064e\u0641\u064e\u0628\u0650\u0671\u0644\u0652\u0628\u064e\u0640\u0670\u0637\u0650\u0644\u0650 \u064a\u064f\u0624\u0652\u0645\u0650\u0646\u064f\u0648\u0646\u064e \u0648\u064e\u0628\u0650\u0646\u0650\u0639\u0652\u0645\u064e\u062a\u0650 \u0671\u0644\u0644\u0651\u064e\u0647\u0650 \u0647\u064f\u0645\u0652 \u064a\u064e\u0643\u0652\u0641\u064f\u0631\u064f\u0648\u0646\u064e It is Allah Who has made for you mates from your own species and He is the One Who gives [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":48324,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":"","_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[43],"tags":[5476],"class_list":["post-49848","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-special-feature","tag-special-feature"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/radioislam.org.za\/a\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/gratitude.png?fit=400%2C200&ssl=1","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[],"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/pc0QIf-cY0","jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"publishpress_future_action":{"enabled":false,"date":"2026-05-17 08:49:34","action":"change-status","newStatus":"draft","terms":[],"taxonomy":"category","extraData":[]},"publishpress_future_workflow_manual_trigger":{"enabledWorkflows":[]},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/radioislam.org.za\/a\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/49848","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/radioislam.org.za\/a\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/radioislam.org.za\/a\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/radioislam.org.za\/a\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/radioislam.org.za\/a\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=49848"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/radioislam.org.za\/a\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/49848\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/radioislam.org.za\/a\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/48324"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/radioislam.org.za\/a\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=49848"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/radioislam.org.za\/a\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=49848"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/radioislam.org.za\/a\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=49848"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}