Having taken a look at the benefits of gratitude, we now take a look at the opposite side, the harms of Ingratitude.
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\nAsma\u2019 (RA) reported: The Messenger of Allah \ufdfa passed by a group of women in the mosque one day. The Prophet waved with his hand to greet them with peace and he said, \u201cBeware of ingratitude to those who bless you. Beware of ingratitude to those who bless you.\u201d One of the women said, \u201cO Messenger of Allah, I seek refuge in Allah, O Prophet of Allah, from being ungrateful to Allah.\u201d The Prophet said, \u201cRather, one of you will be widowed for a long time throughout her middle years, then Allah provides her with a husband and he benefits her with a child, the joy of her life. Then, she gets very angry and she swears by Allah, saying: I never had one good moment with you! That is ingratitude to the blessings of Allah. That is ingratitude to those who bless her.\u201d [Musnad Ah\u0323mad 27042]<\/p>\n
It\u2019s important to be intentional about showing gratitude every day. if we live our lives without looking for ways to demonstrate gratitude more consistently than at certain occasions, we could ultimately set our family and our kids up for a dangerous future. I know that may sound a little extreme, but think about it. When you don\u2019t practice gratitude . . .<\/p>\n
You Develop an Unhealthy Ego<\/strong> You Invite the Wrong Kind of Friends<\/strong> You Fuel an Attitude of Entitlement<\/strong> You Breed Discontentment<\/strong> You Nurture a Critical Spirit<\/strong> Having taken a look at the benefits of gratitude, we now take a look at the opposite side, the harms of Ingratitude. \u0639\u0646 \u0623\u064e\u0633\u0652\u0645\u064e\u0627\u0621 \u0623\u064e\u0646\u0651\u064e \u0631\u064e\u0633\u064f\u0648\u0644\u064e \u0627\u0644\u0644\u0651\u064e\u0647\u0650 \u0635\u064e\u0644\u0651\u064e\u0649 \u0627\u0644\u0644\u0651\u064e\u0647\u064f \u0639\u064e\u0644\u064e\u064a\u0652\u0647\u0650 \u0648\u064e\u0633\u064e\u0644\u0651\u064e\u0645\u064e \u0645\u064e\u0631\u0651\u064e \u0641\u0650\u064a \u0627\u0644\u0652\u0645\u064e\u0633\u0652\u062c\u0650\u062f\u0650 \u064a\u064e\u0648\u0652\u0645\u064b\u0627 \u0648\u064e\u0639\u064f\u0635\u0652\u0628\u064e\u0629\u064c \u0645\u0650\u0646\u0652 \u0627\u0644\u0646\u0651\u0650\u0633\u064e\u0627\u0621\u0650 \u0642\u064f\u0639\u064f\u0648\u062f\u064c \u0641\u064e\u0623\u064e\u0644\u0652\u0648\u064e\u0649 \u0628\u0650\u064a\u064e\u062f\u0650\u0647\u0650 \u0625\u0650\u0644\u064e\u064a\u0652\u0647\u0650\u0646\u0651\u064e \u0628\u0650\u0627\u0644\u0633\u0651\u064e\u0644\u064e\u0627\u0645\u0650 \u0642\u064e\u0627\u0644\u064e \u0625\u0650\u064a\u0651\u064e\u0627\u0643\u064f\u0646\u0651\u064e \u0648\u064e\u0643\u064f\u0641\u0652\u0631\u064e\u0627\u0646\u064e \u0627\u0644\u0652\u0645\u064f\u0646\u064e\u0639\u0651\u064e\u0645\u0650\u064a\u0646\u064e \u0625\u0650\u064a\u0651\u064e\u0627\u0643\u064f\u0646\u0651\u064e \u0648\u064e\u0643\u064f\u0641\u0652\u0631\u064e\u0627\u0646\u064e \u0627\u0644\u0652\u0645\u064f\u0646\u064e\u0639\u0651\u064e\u0645\u0650\u064a\u0646\u064e \u0642\u064e\u0627\u0644\u064e\u062a\u0652 \u0625\u0650\u062d\u0652\u062f\u064e\u0627\u0647\u064f\u0646\u0651\u064e \u064a\u064e\u0627 \u0631\u064e\u0633\u064f\u0648\u0644\u064e \u0627\u0644\u0644\u0651\u064e\u0647\u0650 […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":48324,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":"","_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[43],"tags":[5476],"class_list":["post-50311","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-special-feature","tag-special-feature"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/radioislam.org.za\/a\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/gratitude.png?fit=400%2C200&ssl=1","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[],"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/pc0QIf-d5t","jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"publishpress_future_action":{"enabled":false,"date":"2026-04-16 00:55:28","action":"change-status","newStatus":"draft","terms":[],"taxonomy":"category","extraData":[]},"publishpress_future_workflow_manual_trigger":{"enabledWorkflows":[]},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/radioislam.org.za\/a\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/50311","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/radioislam.org.za\/a\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/radioislam.org.za\/a\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/radioislam.org.za\/a\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/radioislam.org.za\/a\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=50311"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/radioislam.org.za\/a\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/50311\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/radioislam.org.za\/a\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/48324"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/radioislam.org.za\/a\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=50311"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/radioislam.org.za\/a\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=50311"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/radioislam.org.za\/a\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=50311"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}
\nA healthy ego is important. You want your kids to grow up with the confidence to pursue and accomplish goals. You want your children to believe in themselves. But that\u2019s different from raising them to believe they are better than everyone around them. It is dangerous for kids to grow up and believe they really don\u2019t need anyone else. When you develop the habit of expressing GRATITUDE, you build a constant reminder into your life of how others have contributed to your success.<\/p>\n
\nThe best way to burn through good friendships fast is to never show gratitude. Smart friends are not going to stay in relationships with people who just use or drain them. So you can expect the right kind of friends to avoid ungrateful people. At the same time, those who are ungrateful will tend to attract friends who are the same. So if, \u201cthe quality of your friends will determine the direction of your life,\u201d ungrateful people will tend to go down a slippery path.<\/p>\n
\nIf you want your kid to grow up and believe \u201cthe world owes me,\u201d then let his or her ungrateful attitude go unchecked. Gratitude focuses on the idea that I should appreciate the role others play in my success. It implies that when someone does something for me that I recognize the value they add to my life. Entitlement implies that others do what they do for me because they recognize my importance. Without a habit of gratitude you convince yourself that the rest of the world should help you because you deserve it.<\/p>\n
\nWe all tend to drift toward an \u201cit\u2019s never enough\u201d attitude because of our focus on what we want. Discontentment is how our problem started. Discontentment is a dangerous thing. Whenever you show gratitude, you are simply readjusting your focus. Gratitude is simply turning your attention from what you don\u2019t have to what you do have. If you want your children to become content adults, then help them understand why they should be grateful.<\/p>\n
\nDid you ever stop to think that practicing a positive virtue actually helps you overcome a negative attitude? If you have a tendency to be jealous, learn to praise and celebrate what others accomplish. If you have a tendency to be indifferent toward others, then do a few random acts of kindness. If you have a problem with being critical or negative, then become intentional about showing gratitude.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"