This morning Ml. Sulaimaan Ravat took a look at some of the reasons why we are so materialistic. We will continue from there.<\/p>\n
The Desire to Fit In Compels Us<\/strong><\/p>\n We all feel the need to fit in with the famous click of friends who just seem to have it all. But how often doesn\u2019t it happen that we work our entire lives just to fit in, and when we finally get in, then only do we realise that this click is not for us.<\/p>\n The rise of new technology is perhaps the biggest testament to this aspect of human behaviour. Whenever a new technology gets out, first everybody techie \u201chas to have it.\u201d Then it reaches a certain point where most people\u2019s social circles are filled with people that have it, and then even though they were initially apathetic, suddenly they have to have it, too. Consider a man who didn\u2019t find his house lacking until he saw himself surrounded by bigger houses.<\/p>\n Commercial Conditioning Influences Us More Than We Think<\/strong><\/p>\n While I would not say that we are utterly brainwashed, the media influences us more than you might think. The past few years, advertising companies have mostly been criticized for the unannounced use of Photoshop. But that\u2019s not all they\u2019re doing. Have you ever noticed how advertisements tend to show very pleased or happy people using the product in question? Not only do advertisements always try to force you to make the connection between their product and happiness, but they also try to make you blame your unhappiness on not having the said product. And even if you\u2019re aware of their game, it doesn\u2019t necessarily mean it\u2019s less effective. Just think about all the bad decisions you have made in your life, perfectly aware of what you were doing.<\/p>\n Our Society Glorifies Item Possession<\/strong><\/p>\n How many times have you heard, \u201cI wish I had that house.\u201d Or, \u201cIf only I had that car\u2026\u201d You might have even said so yourself. This is the most simple of many symptoms that item possession is glorified in our society. And while most of us do not let wealth overshadow other qualities, there are certainly people who do. And it\u2019s fair to say that to most of us, wealth is considered a positive attribute.<\/p>\n We Crave Acceptance, Love and Status<\/strong><\/p>\n This is where our craving for acceptance, for reverence, for status comes in. Most of us are genetically wired to crave the acceptance and love of our fellow women and men. This is probably to ensure our survival as a species, as it would make it easier for the common good to override the search for personal pleasure. But it doesn\u2019t end there. When you convince someone that a way to get accepted, to get liked better, to achieve status, is through the garnering of possessions, he or she will pile them up until they reach the clouds. And when that person finds their cries of acceptance hollow, their statements of love empty, they will pile up some more, now convinced that it is the only answer.<\/p>\n Some argue that focusing on goals, whether materialistic or otherwise, can shift your focus away from what is truly important: your daily life. Normal days make up the bulk of your existence, and if you don\u2019t enjoy them, it\u2019s usually not from the lack of a new car. When the new car arrives, and your life doesn\u2019t change, you lose the illusion that it would make your life better, and have to face the reality that there other things between you and happiness.<\/p>\n When you\u2019re on your deathbed, what do you think you will recall? The houses you owned? The cars? Or the biggest surprises of your life, the experiences hardest to forget, your greatest friends, and time spent with the ones you loved most?<\/p>\n Most of us would likely be better off if we chose to consciously prioritize people and experiences, over money and possessions.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" This morning Ml. Sulaimaan Ravat took a look at some of the reasons why we are so materialistic. We will continue from there. The Desire to Fit In Compels Us We all feel the need to fit in with the famous click of friends who just seem to have it all. 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