{"id":55749,"date":"2021-08-26T09:00:04","date_gmt":"2021-08-26T07:00:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/radioislam.org.za\/a\/?p=55749"},"modified":"2021-08-25T14:53:25","modified_gmt":"2021-08-25T12:53:25","slug":"lessons-from-taking-the-young-boys-life-part-21","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/radioislam.org.za\/a\/lessons-from-taking-the-young-boys-life-part-21\/","title":{"rendered":"Lessons from taking the young boy\u2019s life Part 21"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Today we will take a look at the second incident which transpired during the journey of Musa \u0639\u0644\u064a\u0647 \u0627\u0644\u0633\u0644\u0627\u0645 and Khadir and see what lessons we can derive from there.<\/p>\n<p>So having disembarked from the boat the two servants of Allah were walking when Khadir approached a young boy and hit the boy causing the boy to die instantly. Musa \u0639\u0644\u064a\u0647 \u0627\u0644\u0633\u0644\u0627\u0645 was perturbed by this action of Khadir and immediately questioned him about it. Khadir later explained to Musa \u0639\u0644\u064a\u0647 \u0627\u0644\u0633\u0644\u0627\u0645 the reason why he did it.<\/p>\n<p>\u0648\u064e\u0623\u064e\u0645\u064e\u0651\u0627 \u0627\u0644\u0652\u063a\u064f\u0644\u064e\u0627\u0645\u064f \u0641\u064e\u0643\u064e\u0627\u0646\u064e \u0623\u064e\u0628\u064e\u0648\u064e\u0627\u0647\u064f \u0645\u064f\u0624\u0652\u0645\u0650\u0646\u064e\u064a\u0652\u0646\u0650 \u0641\u064e\u062e\u064e\u0634\u0650\u064a\u0646\u064e\u0627 \u0623\u064e\u0646 \u064a\u064f\u0631\u0652\u0647\u0650\u0642\u064e\u0647\u064f\u0645\u064e\u0627 \u0637\u064f\u063a\u0652\u064a\u064e\u0627\u0646\u064b\u0627 \u0648\u064e\u0643\u064f\u0641\u0652\u0631\u064b\u0627<br \/>\n\u201cAnd as for that young man, his parents were [true] believers \u2013 whereas we had every reason to fear that he would bring bitter grief upon them by [his] wickedness and denial of all truth.\u201d [Al Kahf 18: 80]<\/p>\n<p>\u0641\u064e\u0623\u064e\u0631\u064e\u062f\u0652\u0646\u064e\u0627 \u0623\u064e\u0646 \u064a\u064f\u0628\u0652\u062f\u0650\u0644\u064e\u0647\u064f\u0645\u064e\u0627 \u0631\u064e\u0628\u064f\u0651\u0647\u064f\u0645\u064e\u0627 \u062e\u064e\u064a\u0652\u0631\u064b\u0627 \u0645\u0650\u0651\u0646\u0652\u0647\u064f \u0632\u064e\u0643\u064e\u0627\u0629\u064b \u0648\u064e\u0623\u064e\u0642\u0652\u0631\u064e\u0628\u064e \u0631\u064f\u062d\u0652\u0645\u064b\u0627<br \/>\n\u201cAnd so we desired that their Sustainer grant them in his stead [a child] of greater purity than him, and closer [to them] in loving tenderness.\u201d [Al Kahf 18: 81]<\/p>\n<p>Almost every couple and parents dream is to have children, and many of them will confirm that children are from amongst the greatest bounties of Allah. However, it is important to understand that not every child is a blessing. A child can also be a means of distress, torment and sorrow for the parent, by being rebellious, disobedient, ungrateful and wicked, as the Holy Quraan describes them as (\u0637\u064f\u063a\u0652\u064a\u064e\u0627\u0646\u064b\u0627 \u0648\u064e\u0643\u064f\u0641\u0652\u0631\u064b\u0627). This is especially true for the children Allah gives to disbelievers.<\/p>\n<p>\u0641\u064e\u0644\u064e\u0627 \u062a\u064f\u0639\u0652\u062c\u0650\u0628\u0652\u0643\u064e \u0623\u064e\u0645\u0652\u0648\u064e\u0670\u0644\u064f\u0647\u064f\u0645\u0652 \u0648\u064e\u0644\u064e\u0627\u0653 \u0623\u064e\u0648\u0652\u0644\u064e\u0640\u0670\u062f\u064f\u0647\u064f\u0645\u0652 \u06da \u0625\u0650\u0646\u0651\u064e\u0645\u064e\u0627 \u064a\u064f\u0631\u0650\u064a\u062f\u064f \u0671\u0644\u0644\u0651\u064e\u0647\u064f \u0644\u0650\u064a\u064f\u0639\u064e\u0630\u0651\u0650\u0628\u064e\u0647\u064f\u0645 \u0628\u0650\u0647\u064e\u0627 \u0641\u0650\u0649 \u0671\u0644\u0652\u062d\u064e\u064a\u064e\u0648\u0670\u0629\u0650 \u0671\u0644\u062f\u0651\u064f\u0646\u0652\u064a\u064e\u0627 \u0648\u064e\u062a\u064e\u0632\u0652\u0647\u064e\u0642\u064e \u0623\u064e\u0646\u0641\u064f\u0633\u064f\u0647\u064f\u0645\u0652 \u0648\u064e\u0647\u064f\u0645\u0652 \u0643\u064e\u0640\u0670\u0641\u0650\u0631\u064f\u0648\u0646\u064e<br \/>\n\u201cLet not their wealth nor their children dazzle you: in reality Allah\u2019s plan is to punish them with these things in this life, and that their souls may perish in their (very) denial of Allah.\u201d [At Tauba 9: 55]<\/p>\n<p>In the Noble Q uraan, Allah gives two examples of Prophets \u0639\u0644\u064a\u0647\u0645\u0627 \u0627\u0644\u0633\u0644\u0627\u0645 who were tested through their children. The son of Nuh \u0639\u0644\u064a\u0647 \u0627\u0644\u0633\u0644\u0627\u0645 refused to believe in Allah, therefore Allah made him from among the disbelievers who drowned and Allah even commanded Nuh \u0639\u0644\u064a\u0647 \u0627\u0644\u0633\u0644\u0627\u0645 not to regard this rebellious son as part of his family.<\/p>\n<p>\u0642\u064e\u0627\u0644\u064e \u064a\u064e\u0640\u0670\u0646\u064f\u0648\u062d\u064f \u0625\u0650\u0646\u0651\u064e\u0647\u064f\u06e5 \u0644\u064e\u064a\u0652\u0633\u064e \u0645\u0650\u0646\u0652 \u0623\u064e\u0647\u0652\u0644\u0650\u0643\u064e \u06d6 \u0625\u0650\u0646\u0651\u064e\u0647\u064f\u06e5 \u0639\u064e\u0645\u064e\u0644\u064c \u063a\u064e\u064a\u0652\u0631\u064f \u0635\u064e\u0640\u0670\u0644\u0650\u062d\u064d \u06d6<br \/>\nAllah replied: &#8220;O Nuh! In fact he is not of your family; for he is not of righteous conduct. [Hud 11: 46]<br \/>\nThe second example is the difficulties which the sons of Yacoob \u0639\u0644\u064a\u0647 \u0627\u0644\u0633\u0644\u0627\u0645 had put their father through.<\/p>\n<p>A very painful experience that some parents have to go through, is losing a child. But Allah has a perfect reason for everything and by making a child die in his or her youth, it is highly probable that via this tragic demise, Allah is actually saving the parents of this child from an even bigger future torment, grief, or sorrow. Allah might also be intending to give to the parents another child who is purer in character, and more righteous (\u062e\u064e\u064a\u0652\u0631\u064b\u0627 \u0645\u0650\u0651\u0646\u0652\u0647\u064f \u0632\u064e\u0643\u064e\u0627\u0629\u064b); who will be more merciful and kind towards them (\u0623\u064e\u0642\u0652\u0631\u064e\u0628\u064e \u0631\u064f\u062d\u0652\u0645\u064b\u0627) than the one who Allah took away.<\/p>\n<p>The scholars have also written that from this there is a subtle lesson to the student of Deen that it is necessary to kill one\u2019s unlawful desires, as well as the demonic and selfish influences that exist within him if one wishes to gain from the special knowledge which Allah only grants to his selected servants.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Today we will take a look at the second incident which transpired during the journey of Musa \u0639\u0644\u064a\u0647 \u0627\u0644\u0633\u0644\u0627\u0645 and Khadir and see what lessons we can derive from there. 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