In hardships and calamities, it is natural to get swept away by the affliction of the moment. During such trials of faith, unless we are careful, Shaytaan can inject fear and plant doubts in our hearts and minds.<\/p>\n
Our beliefs in such vulnerable states may become overpowered by feelings of the moment resulting in the dwindling of our faith. Some of us start questioning the fairness and wisdom underlying such divine decisions while others get mired in a blame game. All in all, we may find ourselves lost, helpless and stalled, finding it difficult to gather ourselves and move forward.<\/p>\n
For such situations specifically and others in general, Islam teaches us to stay in control by hanging on to the Mercy and Grace of Allah. We pray that Allah keeps us safe from the challenges and trials of life, but as Muslims we should know and understand Quran\u2019s message and the Prophet \ufdfa\u2019s guidance for handling tough moments in life.
\nThe following summarizes some of the key guidance related to this matter.<\/p>\n
Do not feel helpless<\/strong> It was narrated from Abu Hurayrah RA that the Prophet \ufdfa said: \u201cThe strong believer is better and more beloved to Allah than the weak believer, although both are good. Strive to do that which will benefit you and seek the help of Allah, and do not feel helpless. If anything befalls you, do not say \u2018If only I had done (such and such), the such and such would have happened,\u2019 rather say: \u2018Allah has decreed and what He wills He does,\u2019 for \u2018if only\u2019 opens the door to the work of the shaytaan.\u201d [Muslim, 2664].<\/p>\n Ibn al-Qayyim R has done due diligence in explaining this beautiful Hadith. He says: This Hadith includes several important principles of faith, including the following: \u201cDo not feel helpless\u201d: Feeling helpless is contrary to striving for that which will benefit him, and it is contrary to seeking the help of Allah.<\/p>\n The one who strives for that which will benefit him and seeks the help of Allah is the opposite of the one who feels helpless. Revive your faith<\/strong> \u0625\u0650\u0646 \u064a\u064e\u0646\u0635\u064f\u0631\u0652\u0643\u064f\u0645\u064f \u0671\u0644\u0644\u0651\u064e\u0647\u064f \u0641\u064e\u0644\u064e\u0627 \u063a\u064e\u0627\u0644\u0650\u0628\u064e \u0644\u064e\u0643\u064f\u0645\u0652 \u06d6 \u0648\u064e\u0625\u0650\u0646 \u064a\u064e\u062e\u0652\u0630\u064f\u0644\u0652\u0643\u064f\u0645\u0652 \u0641\u064e\u0645\u064e\u0646 \u0630\u064e\u0627 \u0671\u0644\u0651\u064e\u0630\u0650\u0649 \u064a\u064e\u0646\u0635\u064f\u0631\u064f\u0643\u064f\u0645 \u0645\u0651\u0650\u0646\u06e2 \u0628\u064e\u0639\u0652\u062f\u0650\u0647\u0650\u06e6 \u06d7 \u0648\u064e\u0639\u064e\u0644\u064e\u0649 \u0671\u0644\u0644\u0651\u064e\u0647\u0650 \u0641\u064e\u0644\u0652\u064a\u064e\u062a\u064e\u0648\u064e\u0643\u0651\u064e\u0644\u0650 \u0671\u0644\u0652\u0645\u064f\u0624\u0652\u0645\u0650\u0646\u064f\u0648\u0646\u064e A strong faith can keep you focused on the fact that Allah alone ultimately controls all destinies and has power over all things. 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\nEven when all doors appear to have been closed, as true believers we should never let feelings of helplessness succumb us. Consider the following Hadith of the Prophet \ufdfa:
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\nIf he does not attain what was not decreed for him, then he may feel either of two things: Helplessness, which opens the door to the work of the devil, so his sense of helplessness leads him to say \u201cif only,\u201d but there is nothing good in saying \u201cif only\u201d in this case, rather that opens the door to blame, panic, discontentment, regret and grief, all of which are the work of shaytaan.
\nThe Prophet \ufdfa forbade us to open the door to his works in this manner, and told us to adopt the second option, which is looking at the divine decree and bearing it in mind, for if it was decreed for him it would never have missed him and no one could have prevented him from attaining it. Hence he said: \u201cIf anything befalls you, do not say \u2018If only I had done (such and such), the such and such would have happened,\u2019 rather say: \u2018Allah has decreed and what He wills He does,\u2019\u201d and he taught him that which will benefit him in either case, whether he gets what he wanted or not. Hence this hadeeth is one which a person can never do without. (Shifa Al-Aleel, 37-38)<\/p>\n
\nAs mentioned in the Hadith above, a strong faith can help us to hold our heads high. When faith seems to be dwindling, we should get back to Quran and remind ourselves that only Allah can let us out of our ordeal and problems. You must, therefore, keep that faith and not let shaytaan instil thoughts that could weaken your faith. Allah says in the Quran:<\/p>\n
\nIf Allah helps you, none can overcome you; and if He forsakes you, who is there after Him that can help you? And in Allah (Alone) let believers put their trust. [Aal Imran 3: 160]<\/p>\n