Here\u2019s the good news: Constructive criticism really is a good thing\u2014it just needs to be delivered in the right way. How do you do that? Here are some do`s and don`ts.<\/p>\n
Do actually be constructive<\/strong><\/p>\n What\u2019s the key word in constructive criticism? Constructive. You shouldn\u2019t just be pointing out a problem\u2014you should be offering a potential solution. Neglecting to do so immediately makes your feedback seem mean-spirited.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t stick your nose where it doesn\u2019t belong<\/strong><\/p>\n Before you jump right in with your own ideas for how someone could improve, ask yourself: Am I the right person to be providing feedback on this situation? If it doesn\u2019t directly involve you in any way, you\u2019re best to stay out of it\u2014or you\u2019ll run the risk of seeming like a nosy meddler.<\/p>\n Do include something positive<\/strong><\/p>\n The last thing you want is for your constructive criticism to seem like a personal attack. That\u2019s why it\u2019s often smart to start with something positive. It helps to cushion the blow and make it clear that you don\u2019t think that person is bad at their entire job\u2014there\u2019s just something they could do to become even better.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t sugar-coat your feedback<\/strong><\/p>\n While you want to start with something good to avoid jumping right in with an accusation, it\u2019s important that your point is still clear. You don\u2019t want to end the conversation with that person feeling confused. So, be as specific as possible. When you can, provide examples to add extra clarity to your feedback.<\/p>\n Do emphasize results<\/strong><\/p>\n You\u2019re eager to make it clear that you aren\u2019t just offering feedback for the sake of destroying that person\u2019s confidence. There\u2019s a real, meaningful result attached to your criticism. Make sure you emphasize that. Will their improvement in this area speed things up for your whole team? Eliminate errors? Streamline communication? Make sure you point to the positive effects you\u2019ll all experience.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t focus on more than one thing<\/strong><\/p>\n When you\u2019ve finally gotten your nerve up to provide a piece of criticism, it can be tempting to just use that opportunity to dump out everything you\u2019ve ever wanted to say. Don\u2019t do that! Focus on only one piece of feedback so that the recipient has a chance to process, respond, and ask questions. You shouldn\u2019t overwhelm them with a bunch of feedback all at once\u2014that instantly seems like an attack.<\/p>\n Do avoid generalizations<\/strong><\/p>\n Nobody wants to be the bearer of bad news, and one of the ways we all tend to detach ourselves from negative feedback is by leaning on generalizations like, \u201cEverybody has been saying\u2026\u201d or \u201cThe whole team has noticed\u2026\u201d But, using phrases like these only makes that person feel ganged up on. If you\u2019re the one offering the criticism, then you need to be prepared to shoulder the burden and not group everybody else in with you.<\/p>\n Body language is another key part of delivering constructive criticism effectively. Check out our course all about body language to make sure your nonverbal cues aren\u2019t betraying your message!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Here\u2019s the good news: Constructive criticism really is a good thing\u2014it just needs to be delivered in the right way. How do you do that? Here are some do`s and don`ts. Do actually be constructive What\u2019s the key word in constructive criticism? Constructive. 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