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The Muslim Housewife – Part 5

The Real Muslim Women

Quick Recap – Don’t Judge Me – The Silent Struggle of Muslim Women Without Hijab

Not all Muslim women wear the Hijab, but that does not mean they lack faith or devotion to Allah. For many, the decision is personal, shaped by individual journeys, circumstances, and struggles. Unfortunately, these women often face the harshest judgment from within the Muslim community — assumptions about their piety, morality, or worth.

The phrase “Don’t judge me” is a plea for compassion and understanding. Faith is not always visible, and only Allah knows the state of a person’s heart. Rather than shaming or excluding non-Hijabi women, the community should create safe, welcoming spaces where they can grow spiritually without fear of judgment.

Ultimately, “Don’t judge me” is not a rejection of the hijab, but a call to treat all Muslim women with dignity, respect, and mercy — walking with them, not ahead of them, on their journey toward Allah.

The Muslim Housewife

Beyond the Apron: Rethinking the Muslim Housewife

When we say “Muslim housewife,” many people instantly picture a familiar scene: a woman in modest dress, busy in the kitchen, raising children, and keeping the home in order. For some, it’s an image of tradition and devotion. For others, it’s a stereotype of limitation and missed opportunity. But in truth, the life of a Muslim housewife is far more layered — and far more powerful — than most people realise.

A Role Rooted in Choice… or Expectation?

One of the first questions we must ask is: How many Muslim women choose to be housewives out of personal conviction, and how many do so because it’s simply expected of them?

For some, the home is a space of empowerment — a place where they can nurture, manage, and build the foundation of family life. For others, it can feel like a role assigned before they ever had the chance to explore other possibilities. The difference between choice and compulsion is everything — and yet, it’s often invisible to outsiders.

The Power of the Unpaid Economy

Globally, the unpaid labour of housewives keeps households — and by extension, entire economies — running. Cooking, cleaning, budgeting, caring for children and elders, and maintaining family relationships are all forms of labour that require skill, time, and emotional energy. A Muslim housewife often does all of this while upholding the Islamic values of patience, service, and gratitude.

Yet this work is frequently undervalued, even within the home. Many housewives report feeling invisible, taken for granted, or reduced to “just a mom” — as though their contributions aren’t worthy of recognition.

Faith and Fulfilment

In Islam, the role of wife and mother is not a lesser calling — it is one of dignity and immense reward. The Prophet Muhammad ﷺ spoke of the value of caring for the family, and how acts done sincerely for the sake of Allah, even in the home, are counted as worship. For many Muslim housewives, this belief transforms daily chores into acts of devotion.

However, faith also teaches that seeking knowledge, personal growth, and self-care are important for both men and women. The danger comes when cultural attitudes — not Islamic teachings — confine women to the home in a way that stifles their potential.

Redefining the Role

Perhaps the most important conversation is about redefining what it means to be a “housewife” in the modern Muslim world.

  • Can a Muslim housewife be a businesswoman, working from home or managing online ventures?
  • Can she pursue education or hobbies alongside raising her children?
  • Can the term “housewife” shift from being about limitation to being about leadership in the home?

Some Muslim women are already reshaping this role — blending homemaking with activism, creative work, and entrepreneurship, proving that being a housewife does not mean disappearing from public life or influence.

Questions for Reflection

Do we, as a community, truly value the work of Muslim housewives, or do we romanticise it without supporting them?

  • Are we allowing Muslim women to choose this path, or is it the default expectation?
  • How can the role of the housewife evolve to include emotional well-being, personal growth, and financial empowerment?

The Muslim housewife is not a relic of the past — she is a living, adapting figure who holds one of the most critical roles in our communities. The conversation we need is not about whether her work matters — it’s about how we can value it, support it, and give her the space to define it for herself.

 

 

 

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